ON PURPOSE, WITH PURPOSE: Circle of Inquiry Discussion Prompts
Companion Circle of Inquiry Discussion Prompts
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“What stayed with you?”
Prompts to Go Even Deeper for Circle or Self
for all bodies, all stories, all identities
1. “Where in my life do I feel most like myself—and where do I feel least like myself?”
Why this works:
Everyone knows the feeling of alignment vs. self-betrayal, even if they’ve never named it. This prompt gently reveals purpose as congruence, not achievement.
Best chapter(s) to read from first:
Follow-up question:
“What stayed with you from the reading that relates to being yourself?”
2. “What has been quietly asking for my attention lately?”
Why this works:
This bypasses pressure and ambition and invites listening. It honors purpose as something already present but often ignored.
Best chapter(s) to read from first:
Follow-up question:
“What line, image, or feeling stayed with you?”
3. “What do Id spend my energy on that doesn’t actually matter to me?”
Why this works:
This question opens honesty without blame. It surfaces drift, obligation, and inherited expectations—core themes of the handbook.
Best chapter(s) to read from first:
Follow-up question:
“What stayed with you about how we spend our days?”
4. “When have I felt most useful—not impressive, but genuinely useful?”
Why this works:
This reframes purpose away from status and toward contribution, service, and presence—something everyone has experienced in small ways.
Best chapter(s) to read from first:
Follow-up question:
“What stayed with you about usefulness or contribution?”
5. “If someone remembered me only for how I made them feel, what would I hope that feeling was?”
Why this works:
This gently invites legacy thinking without mortality fixation. It centers purpose in relational impact, not accomplishment.
Best chapter(s) to read from first:
Follow-up question:
“What stayed with you about how we leave traces in others?”
Facilitator Tip
You don’t need to use all five prompts.
Even one can be enough for a full circle when paired with silence, embodiment, and unhurried listening.
After any prompt, you can add:
“Take a moment to notice where this question lands in your body before answering.”
This keeps the inquiry embodied and aligned with the spirit of the book.
Closing Circle Question (Optional, Powerful)
After any of the above, ask simply:
“What stayed with you?”
Then allow:
Silence
One sentence
An image
A feeling
No interpretation. No response required.